Sikh Wedding Planning: Anand Karaj Ceremony and Celebrations Guide
Everything you need to know about planning a Sikh wedding, from the sacred Anand Karaj ceremony to the vibrant pre-wedding celebrations.
The Sikh wedding ceremony, known as Anand Karaj (Ceremony of Bliss), is one of the most beautiful and spiritually meaningful wedding traditions.
Understanding the Anand Karaj
The ceremony takes place in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib (the Sikh holy scripture), centering around the Laavan—four hymns describing the soul's journey toward union with God.
The Four Laavan
- 1First Laav: The couple's duty to each other and to God. Emphasizes righteous living.
- 2Second Laav: Developing love and devotion. Meeting the True Guru within.
- 3Third Laav: Detachment from worldly attachments. Finding divine love.
- 4Fourth Laav: Complete union and harmony. The soul finds God.
During each Laav, the couple walks clockwise around the Guru Granth Sahib while the congregation sings.
Pre-Wedding Celebrations
Roka and Thaka
Formal engagement where both families agree to the match. Gifts and sweets are exchanged.
Chunni Ceremony
The groom's family presents the bride with a red chunni and gifts, symbolizing acceptance into the family.
Jaggo
A unique Sikh tradition the night before the wedding. Female relatives carry decorated pots on their heads through the neighborhood, singing and dancing. One of the most energetic Sikh wedding traditions.
The Wedding Day
Milni
Male members from both families are paired and exchange garlands, establishing the bond between families.
The Ceremony
Setting: Must take place in presence of the Guru Granth Sahib—in a gurdwara or any respectful location.
Duration: Typically 1-2 hours depending on kirtan length.
Guests: All sit on the floor as a sign of equality. Shoes removed, heads covered.
Key Moments: Ardas (opening prayer), Palla ceremony (bride holds groom's scarf), four Laavan, Anand Sahib (hymn of bliss), final Ardas and Hukamnama.
Doli
The bride's emotional departure from her parents' home.
Planning the Ceremony Venue
Gurdwara Weddings
- ◆No venue cost (donations customary)
- ◆Built-in sound system and stage
- ◆Langar may provide food
- ◆Sacred, familiar setting
Hotel or Banquet Hall
- ◆Ensure respectful setup for Guru Granth Sahib
- ◆Hire Granthi and Ragis separately
- ◆Provide head coverings at entrance
- ◆Set up separate shoe area
Attire
The Bride
Traditional: red or maroon salwar kameez or lehenga, heavy gold jewelry, chooda (red and white bangles), red chunni covering the head.
The Groom
Sherwani or kurta-pyjama, pagdi matching wedding colors, kirpan and kalgi, sehra for the baraat.
Reception
The party begins: dhol players, Bhangra and Giddha performances, Punjabi feast with dal makhani and tandoori everything, cake cutting and dancing.
Tips for Planning
- 1Book Granthi and Ragis early: They're in high demand
- 2Provide programs: Explain the ceremony for non-Sikh guests
- 3Head coverings: Have scarves available at the entrance
- 4Floor seating: Provide cushions or chairs for elderly guests
- 5Photography: Discuss rules with the Granthi in advance
The Anand Karaj celebrates love, equality, and spiritual partnership. Plan with reverence and joy.
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