The Modern Indian Groom's Style Guide: Sherwani to Indo-Western
From classic sherwanis to modern Indo-Western looks, here's the complete style guide for the Indian groom who wants to look his best on every wedding event.
The Indian groom's wardrobe has evolved dramatically. Today's grooms have options that range from time-honored sherwanis to sharp Indo-Western fusion looks. Here's how to build your wedding wardrobe across every event.
The Wedding Ceremony Look
Classic Sherwani
The sherwani remains the gold standard for Indian grooms. This long, structured coat worn over churidar (fitted trousers) is regal and timeless.
**Choosing the right sherwani**:
- ◆Fabric: Raw silk for winter, lightweight silk or linen blends for summer
- ◆Color: Ivory, gold, maroon, or coordinating with the bride's outfit
- ◆Embroidery: Thread work, zardozi, or sequin depending on formality
- ◆Fit: Tailored to your body—avoid anything too tight or too loose
- ◆Length: Should hit mid-thigh to just above the knee
The Bandhgala (Nehru Jacket)
A more streamlined alternative to the sherwani. The bandhgala is a structured, high-collar jacket that can be worn with Western trousers or churidar. It bridges Indian and Western aesthetics beautifully.
Indo-Western Suit
For the modern groom, an Indo-Western suit combines a Western silhouette with Indian detailing—embroidered lapels, textured fabrics, or a mandarin collar on a slim-fit suit.
Event-by-Event Style Guide
Mehendi
Keep it casual and colorful. Options include:
- ◆A printed kurta with jeans or chinos
- ◆A linen kurta-pyjama set in yellow or green
- ◆A casual short kurta with white pants
Sangeet
This is your chance to have fun with fashion:
- ◆A statement jacket over a simple kurta
- ◆A velvet bandhgala for evening events
- ◆Bold colors and prints that complement the festive atmosphere
- ◆Consider coordinating with your partner for a stylish couple moment
Haldi
Wear something you don't mind getting stained:
- ◆A simple white kurta and pyjama
- ◆White or off-white linen that can handle turmeric
- ◆Skip expensive fabrics—this outfit will get messy
Reception
The reception is your red-carpet moment:
- ◆A tuxedo or Western suit for a glamorous feel
- ◆A rich velvet or brocade sherwani for traditional elegance
- ◆An Indo-Western ensemble that's different from the ceremony look
Accessorizing the Look
The Pagdi/Safa (Turban)
The traditional headwear adds instant grandeur. Options range from elaborate Rajasthani safas to sleek, minimal wraps. Work with your tailor to find a style that complements your face shape.
The Sehra
The traditional face veil of flowers or beads. While some grooms skip it, the sehra is a beautiful moment during the baraat and creates stunning photographs.
Footwear
Juttis (traditional mojaris): Embroidered slip-on shoes that are classic and elegant. Break them in before the wedding day.
Formal shoes: For Western or Indo-Western looks, polished dress shoes work perfectly.
Jewelry and Accessories
- ◆A statement brooch on the sherwani adds personality
- ◆A classic watch is always appropriate
- ◆Kalgi (turban ornament) for ceremony looks
- ◆Cufflinks for Western-style reception outfits
Shopping and Tailoring Tips
Timeline
6-8 Months Before: Start browsing and trying styles
4-6 Months Before: Place orders for custom pieces
2-3 Months Before: First fitting
1 Month Before: Final fitting with all accessories
Where to Shop
In India: Chandni Chowk (Delhi), Crawford Market (Mumbai), and designer boutiques
In the US: Indian menswear boutiques in Edison NJ, Devon Avenue Chicago, and Pioneer Blvd LA
Online: Many designers now offer virtual consultations and made-to-measure services
Fit Essentials
- 1The sherwani should button comfortably without pulling
- 2Sleeves should show a quarter-inch of kurta sleeve underneath
- 3Churidar should be fitted but allow you to sit cross-legged comfortably
- 4Everything should allow for dancing—you'll need mobility at the baraat
Coordination with the Bride
Coordinating doesn't mean matching exactly. Complementary colors and similar levels of formality create a cohesive look. Share fabric swatches with each other and consider these approaches:
- ◆Same color family, different shades
- ◆Matching embroidery motifs or metallic accents
- ◆Coordinating the dupatta/stole with the bride's outfit color
The modern Indian groom has more style options than ever. Choose outfits that reflect your personality and make you feel confident at every event.
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