What to Wear to an Indian Wedding: The Complete Guest Guide
Attending your first Indian wedding? This guide covers dress codes, outfit ideas, and cultural etiquette so you can celebrate with confidence.
Attending an Indian wedding is a vibrant, joyful experience—but figuring out what to wear can be intimidating, especially if it's your first one. Whether you're a South Asian guest looking for fresh outfit ideas or a non-Indian guest navigating cultural dress codes, this guide has you covered.
General Dress Code Rules
Do's
- ◆Dress festively: Indian weddings are celebrations of color and joy. Bright, rich colors are always welcome.
- ◆Go formal: When in doubt, overdress rather than underdress. Indian weddings are typically more formal than Western ones.
- ◆Wear comfortable shoes: You'll be standing, dancing, and potentially walking on grass or uneven surfaces.
- ◆Accessorize boldly: Statement jewelry, embellished clutches, and ornate hair accessories fit right in.
Don'ts
- ◆Avoid white: While not as strict as Western weddings, white can be seen as inauspicious or associated with mourning in some Indian traditions.
- ◆Skip black for the ceremony: Black is generally avoided for the wedding ceremony itself. It's acceptable for the reception or sangeet.
- ◆Don't wear red: Red is traditionally reserved for the bride. Choose other vibrant colors instead.
- ◆Avoid overly casual attire: No jeans, t-shirts, or casual sundresses.
Outfit Ideas for Women
Indian Attire
Saree: The most classic choice. A beautifully draped saree in silk, chiffon, or georgette is always appropriate. If you've never worn one, ask a friend to help you drape it or hire a professional for the day.
Lehenga: A skirt-and-blouse set that's festive and comfortable. Available in every price range from boutique to designer.
Anarkali Suit: A long, flowing dress-style outfit that's flattering and comfortable. Perfect for guests who want Indian attire without the complexity of draping a saree.
Sharara or Palazzo Set: Wide-legged pants with a coordinating kurta. Modern, comfortable, and stylish.
Western Attire
If you prefer Western clothing, choose:
- ◆A formal cocktail dress or gown in a rich, jewel-toned color
- ◆A maxi dress with embellishment or beading
- ◆A dressy jumpsuit in a vibrant color
- ◆Pair with statement accessories and heels
Outfit Ideas for Men
Indian Attire
Kurta-Pyjama: A long tunic with matching trousers. The most common and comfortable option. Choose silk or linen depending on the season.
Bandhgala/Nehru Jacket: A structured jacket worn over a kurta or with Western trousers. Sharp and modern.
Sherwani: For very formal events. Typically reserved for close family members but acceptable for any guest.
Western Attire
- ◆A well-fitted suit in a rich color (navy, charcoal, deep blue)
- ◆A blazer with dress pants and a pocket square
- ◆Dress shoes (avoid sneakers or casual shoes)
Dressing for Each Event
Mehendi
- ◆Casual and colorful
- ◆Comfortable fabrics (your outfit may get henna stains)
- ◆Flowy kurta or sundress
Haldi
- ◆Wear white, yellow, or orange (you will get turmeric on you)
- ◆Old clothes you don't mind staining
- ◆Waterproof footwear
Sangeet
- ◆Party attire—think cocktail dress or glamorous lehenga
- ◆This is the most fashion-forward event
- ◆Sparkle and sequins are encouraged
Wedding Ceremony
- ◆Most formal attire
- ◆Traditional Indian outfits are ideal
- ◆Jewel tones and rich fabrics
Reception
- ◆Glamorous evening wear
- ◆Gowns, cocktail dresses, or a second Indian outfit
- ◆Black is acceptable for the reception
Where to Shop
For Indian Attire
- ◆Online: Aza Fashion, Pernia's Pop-Up Shop, Indian boutiques on Etsy
- ◆In-store: Indian clothing stores in Edison NJ, Jackson Heights NYC, Devon Ave Chicago, Artesia LA
- ◆Rental: Some services rent designer Indian outfits for one-time wear
For Western Attire
Any department store or formal wear shop. Focus on rich colors, luxe fabrics, and formal styles.
Cultural Etiquette Tips
- 1Remove shoes: You may need to remove shoes for certain ceremonies
- 2Cover shoulders: For temple or gurdwara ceremonies, cover your head and shoulders
- 3Cash gifts: Monetary gifts in odd amounts (like $101 or $251) are traditional
- 4Be patient with timing: Indian weddings don't always start on schedule
- 5Eat with your right hand: If eating with hands, the right hand is traditional
Indian weddings are among the most welcoming celebrations you'll ever attend. Dress with respect, come with enthusiasm, and prepare to have the time of your life.
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